I am so grateful to have read The Secret Society of Success: Stop Chasing the Spotlight and Learn to Enjoy Your Work (and Life) Again by Tim Schurrer. I, like many of my co-workers now and in the past, have at one point or another faced the challenges of success in corporate America. On top of that, it’s not just success in corporate America. There are pressures everyone faces when trying to take on the world’s definition of success.
Welcome to the Secret Society. We’re all used to the idea that to be somebody in this world we must find a way to get noticed by our superiors and get promotion after promotion until we’re at the top of the ladder. But what if the actual definition of success has nothing to do with stepping into the spotlight? What if it has everything to do with adding value to a team and not worrying about things like getting credit? What if success is not the number of records you sell or how many fans you have?
Through examples of members of the Secret Society from some you have heard of like LeBron James, Fred Rogers, and Scott Hamilton, along with some you have never heard of, Schurrer presents a new way of finding your life purpose, no matter where you are in your life right now. Without the man who helped the shuttle stay in orbit, Neil Armstrong would not have been able to be the first man to walk on the Moon. Without the woman who created a series of theater games, there’d be no such thing as improv comedy. Yet we don’t know the names of these successful people.
It’s easy to go into situations wondering if you’ll get anything out of it, but Schurrer reminds us that that mindset will not bring the fulfillment we are looking for. Chasing after fame and money can ultimately ruin your mental health and isn’t worth it in the end. This may not be news, but Schurrer provides examples from his own life and friends’ lives that explains exactly why this is true. It’s a different way to define success and one that can potentially save a life.
After reading Schurrer’s book, I have learned so much about not only my role at work, but my whole outlook on life. But best of all, I also learned about what goes on behind-the-scenes of professional football team practices, domestiques in cycling, and the world of lobsters. All of these stories helped shape my understanding of the Secret Society and made the process fun. Give it a try. You have more value than any job title could ever give you.